Scaachi Koul

When Should I Accept That I’m Not Going To Make It In Journalism?

In this week's installment of Unf*ck Yourself: getting cut out by a friend, struggling to make it in media, and an update from a past letter-writer.

Why Doesn’t My Partner Want To Work With Me?

In this week's installment of Unf*ck Yourself: a sedentary roommate, an obsession with television, and a strong hatred for Mr. Darcy.

Is It Okay To Text-Flirt With A Married Woman?

Advice on a flirtatious friendship, fondling bosses, your niece's vocal fry, and how to feel about Ray Rice.

Is It Weird That A Stranger Brings Me Lunches?

This week's installment of Unf*ck Yourself: dealing with change.

How Do I Tell My Roommate She Needs To Flush?

Lead-footed office-walkers, uniquely unclean living partners, and unfriendly in-laws (with a guest appearance from our columnist's father).

How Do I Talk To My Perpetually Stoned Friend?

Plus: gender-specific household items, the unexpected perils of cohabitation, and ending up as the other man.